eyes are the same as your eyes, blood flows to a similar beat, hurt registers on a familiar pain scale. Distance does not need a special screen to filter experience. Bring them up close past your upbrought picture frame that defines borders, allows you to focus a magnifying glass, excuse responsibility with need to cope with what you have in the here and now. Bigger numbers seem.smaller when further away. Let those people who are closer act. Further away is not your responsibility. Care for all at arms length. Be professional in your care management before it all becomes too much.